Kindness

 Kindness,,  how to be kind when the other person is not and doesn't seem to care who they hurt?   What can be done in that case? You start by not reacting the same way. If you can, a soft voice and quiet   demeanor can work wonders. It is much better to be kind to people, even those who you think don't deserve it.   And you just might change the way that other person reacts to others. 

Come, see what kindness can do to relationships between people.  Keep your voice calm and quiet , no matter the provocation. You will have a much better life if you will treat  all other people with love and gentleness. And this is God's command, that we live together in peace and love. 

I have discovered that if you talk quietly to a person you distrust,  you just might find the person is not as bad as first thought. From a distance,  the person sometimes seems impossible to deal with, but as you get closer, you may find the person is   better than others have told you.